Perkawinan Malam 29 Ramadhan di Parengan Kabupaten Tuban Perspektif Hukum Adat Dan Hukum Islam
The 29th Night of Ramadan Marriage in Parengan, Tuban Regency, Perspective of Traditional Law and Islamic Law
Abstract
Ramadan is a blessed and holy month, where Muslims are required to fast and also increase their worship such as Qiyamul Layl, Tadarrus Al-Quran and other religious activities. But it is different in Parengan District, Tuban Regency, doing a wedding ceremony on the 29th night of Ramadan called malem songo, a long tradition that is not known for sure. This study aims; 1) to find out the background of the 29th night of Ramadan wedding tradition in Parengan District, Tuban Regency. 2) to find out the perspectives of traditional law and Islamic law on the 29th night of Ramadan wedding in Parengan Sub-district, Tuban Regency. The research is a legal empirical study using documentation and interviews. The data was collected, verified and organized descriptively using a qualitative approach. This research finds that 1) the habits of the Tuban society in marriage still have a strong belief in traditional law and their speculation of the time calculation of the wedding is the benchmark for the wedding's failure. So many of the couples who will get married use the 29th night of the month of Ramadan, namely malem songo which is already believed to be a good night. 2) The Islamic law recommends marriage in a legal way based on its rukun, so there is no prohibition on malem songo marriage as long as it is in line with the principles of Islamic law.
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